The famous "autobiography in five short chapters"

I've always liked this alcoholic's thingy. It's meant to show that the path to change includes taking personal responsibility. I always think of it when I'm faced with trying to change something in my life. That crucial first step is to just realize that the hole is there, and until you remember it, recognize it's coming, see that you're about to fall in, you won't be able to learn to start walking around.

I don't know if it's really written by Portia Nelson, but she seems to be attributed as the author in most places.

AUTOBIOGRAPHY IN FIVE SHORT CHAPTERS

by Portia Nelson

I

I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk
I fall in.
I am lost ... I am helpless.
It isn't my fault.
It takes me forever to find a way out.

II

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don't see it.
I fall in again.
I can't believe I am in the same place
but, it isn't my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.

III

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in ... it's a habit.
my eyes are open
I know where I am.
It is my fault.
I get out immediately.

IV

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.

V

I walk down another street.